<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>Daryl Sznyter</title>
	<atom:link href="https://darylsznyter.com/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>https://darylsznyter.com</link>
	<description>Author, Poet, &#38; Blogger</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Sun, 13 Aug 2023 18:07:38 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en-US</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>
	hourly	</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>
	1	</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0</generator>
	<item>
		<title>Tender Is the Flesh Book Review: Grief, Cannibalism &#038; the Nuclear Family</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/tender-is-the-flesh-book-review/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/tender-is-the-flesh-book-review/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jul 2023 23:36:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Horror]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Literary]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=1004222</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Agustina Bazterrica's Tender is the Flesh uses cannibalism as a device to explore themes of power, privilege, grief &#038; society's role in perpetuating oppression.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[
<div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_0 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_0">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_0  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When I was in college, my Intro to Creative Writing teacher brought in a list of </span><a href="https://mrusbooksnreviews.com/best-first-lines-of-books" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">iconic first lines</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> from books. As an aspiring writer, I remember being enthralled by the list, amazed at the different feelings a single line could stir up in a reader. Confession: I spent the rest of that semester systematically checking out every book on that list from the library. A few of those books are still some of my all-time favorites today. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For as challenging as that first line can be though, writing a breathtaking final line is perhaps even more difficult yet just as important. (Hell, just ask </span><a href="https://www.telegraph.co.uk/books/authors/stephen-king-cant-write-good-ending-save-life-knows/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Stephen King</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.) When it comes to last lines, Agustina Bazterrica&#8217;s </span><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/tender-is-the-flesh-agustina-bazterrica/13446672" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tender Is the Flesh</span></i></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is as perfect as it gets. The whole novel blew me away, but that last line hit me like a hammer to the solar plexus. I’ve spent the two years since recommending it to all my horror-loving friends because </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tender Is the Flesh</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is not a book to be read in solitude. The moment you finish that final page, you WILL want to talk about it. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Set in a bleak dystopian future, Bazterrica&#8217;s novel portrays a society that may or may not — the author leaves this part ambiguous — have been ravaged by a mysterious virus that has rendered animals unfit for human consumption. Because mass vegetarianism is apparently unthinkable, cannibalism becomes an accepted practice (known as “the Transition”) sanctioned by the government. We’re not talking about the stalk-and-murder </span><a href="https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/eat-your-heart-out-hannibal-lecter-cannibalism-is-a-waste-of-time-672d9fdpc" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Hannibal Lecter</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> type of cannibalism here, though. I mean humans — referred to as “head” or “special meat” — are literally bred and killed using the </span><a href="https://academic.oup.com/jas/article/98/4/skaa040/5728595" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">same methods</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> as today’s meatpacking plants. The human specimens are even given different “grades” based on their perceived purity.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Marcos, the novel’s protagonist, works for a plant that prepares the head for slaughter. Early on, Marcos elicits our sympathy when we learn he is grieving the death of his son and separation from his equally grief-ridden wife as he watches his father descend further and further into dementia. Perhaps because of the ever-pervasive sadness that darkens his day-to-day, Marcos is able to dissociate from the ethical implications of his job or at the very least view his role through a different lens than the role of his friend who stuns the “special meat” with a hammer before the poor souls have time to register fear. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In the book’s opening, Marcos describes the processes of both ridding the world of “diseased” animals and preparing humans for slaughter in the absence of traditional meat with the type of clinical detachment that tells you this “virus” has been around for long enough to lose its initial shock factor. (As this novel was released in 2020, connections can be made to how the world at large adapted — or in some cases, refused to adapt — to </span><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9052715/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">the spread of COVID-19</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.) Bazterrica is careful to introduce Marcos as a morally neutral but necessary part of the human cattle farming process. Marcos makes sure the reader knows he doesn’t do the killing; he is simply the middle man who transports and sells the product. Everything we think we know about Marcos is upended though when the owner of a breeding center gifts him a First Generation Pure female head (FGPs being humans that were bred, born and raised in the slaughterhouse specifically for the purpose of being eaten).</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">At first, Marcos talks about his new specimen using the type of clinical language he uses to describe the head he prepares for slaughter in the early chapters. His initial interactions with her resemble those between pet owner and pet. One of the first scenes between Marcos and the female victim takes place in a barn. Marcos hoses mud from the nubile woman’s filthy, naked body while running through a mental list of potential fates he can inflict on her. He does not attempt to communicate with her because words would have no use; part of the human meat preparation process involves severing the vocal cords.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">His feelings about her circumstances (as well as the circumstances of the Transition at large) appear to change, however, as he gives more thought to his responsibility for his FGP’s life. Despite strict laws against treating the head as human beings — especially as it relates to romantic or sexual encounters — Marcos begins to develop a closeness with his specimen. He names her Jasmine because her natural scent reminds him of jasmine flowers. His growing fondness for Jasmine seems to awaken Marcos to the horrors of society’s indifference to suffering. As the novel progresses, Marcos begins to identify with the victims of the Transition, especially the animal victims. His mental detachment from the process shifts to pity and revulsion as he witnesses the way his sister carves up her domestic head one slice at a time, telling Marcos she read up on how to make the meat last.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">On its surface, </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tender is the Flesh</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is a cautionary tale about human indifference towards animal cruelty. Yet on a deeper level, Bazterrica’s dystopian masterpiece is a meditation on grief and how far a parent will go to fill the void left by the death of a child. The choice of third person narration works to distance the reader from the subject matter enough to make some of the horrors within its pages more palatable, but even the book’s most visceral descriptions of dehumanization do little to desensitize readers to the devastatingly bleak ending. To say anything more would be to spoil an ending most won’t see coming (at least I didn’t see it coming!), so I’ll stop here and let a statement Marcos makes early in the book speak for itself: “One can get used to almost anything, except the death of a child.”</span></p></div>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/tender-is-the-flesh-book-review/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Happy Birthday, Virginia Woolf!</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/happy-birthday-virginia-woolf/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/happy-birthday-virginia-woolf/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2022 15:41:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Literary]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=503989</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[

<div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_1 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_1">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_1  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_1  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Virginia Woolf, best known for popularizing stream-of-consciousness as a narrative device, is easily one of the most important writers of the 20th century modernist movement. Although Woolf ultimately lost her battle with manic depression and cut her own life short at the age of 59, her essays and novels are still celebrated today for their experimental styles and transgressive themes. If you&#8217;ve never read Woolf before (or haven&#8217;t read her since your Intro to Lit. class a few decades ago), I highly recommend <em><a title="Mrs. Dalloway by Virginia Woolf" href="https://www.amazon.com/Mrs-Dalloway-Penguin-Classics-Deluxe/dp/0143136135/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener nofollow">Mrs. Dalloway</a></em> and <em><a title="A Room of One&#039;s Own by Virginia Woolf" href="https://www.amazon.com/Room-Ones-Own-Virginia-Woolf/dp/0156787334/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener nofollow">A Room of One&#8217;s Own</a></em>. Her novel about a day in the life of a high society, party-planning housewife and her extended essay about how patriarchal social constructs stifle female creative and intellectual expression contain some overlapping themes, but in my opinion, both are quintessential to understanding Woolf as a literary icon who also happened to be a bipolar woman struggling to maintain a fulfilling life in a society that made her happiness near impossible.</p>

<p>In celebration of Woolf&#8217;s birthday, I leave you with a short excerpt from <em>A Room of One&#8217;s Own</em> about the stark differences between the female as a literary device and the female reality:</p>

<p>&#8230; A very queer, composite being thus emerges. Imaginatively, she is of the highest importance; practically, she is completely insignificant. She pervades poetry from cover to cover; she is all but absent from history. She dominates the lives of kings and conquerors in fiction; in fact, she was the slave of any boy whose parents forced a ring upon her finger. Some of the most inspired words, some of the most profound thoughts in literature fall from her lips; in real life, she could hardly read, could scarcely spell, and was the property of her husband.</p></div>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div>

]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/happy-birthday-virginia-woolf/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Review: My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Sheet Mask</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/my-scheming-black-pearl-brightening-sheet-mask/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/my-scheming-black-pearl-brightening-sheet-mask/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2021 15:03:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Skincare]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=503828</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Known for its brightening properties, black pearl has been used in skincare for 1000+ years. Does My Scheming's Black Pearl sheet mask live up to the hype?]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_2 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_2">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_2  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_2  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>I haven&rsquo;t posted in a while because 2020 has kept me busy with teaching, SEO work, and the early stages of wedding planning. Yes, I am tying the knot on October 2, and hopefully my skin will glow that day because I stumbled upon a new sheet mask that was just too good not to review. I&rsquo;m talking about the <a title="My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask" href="https://www.yesstyle.com/en/my-scheming-black-mask-8-pcs-11-types-miraculous-yeast-moisturizing/info.html/pid.1076561300" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask</a>. This mask surprised me on many different levels, but ended up becoming one of my new favorite sheet masks!</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_3  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2><strong>The Product</strong></h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_4  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>I got the My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask when it was on sale at <a title="Yesstyle.com" href="https://www.yesstyle.com/en/women.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">Yesstyle</a> (side note: I love Yesstyle and highly recommend checking their site regularly if you&rsquo;re a skincare junkie like myself. They always have great sales and excellent customer service!). <a title="lightening vs brightening skincare ingredients" href="https://medium.com/@cosmotreeclinic/difference-between-skin-whitening-brightening-and-lightening-746697b82d20" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">Brightening masks</a> are my absolute favorite types of skincare products and I can never pass them up if they&rsquo;re on sale! When I purchased it, it was $12.37 for 8 masks (about $1.54 per mask) but Yesstyle normally sells it for somewhere around $16/$2.00 per mask. If you&rsquo;re a regular sheet mask user like myself, you might be wondering if the black pearl mask is worth its hefty price tag. Read on and see my verdict!</p>
<p>(Side note: Although you can&#8217;t really see it from my photo, the packaging is accented with gold foil. Black/white/gold is one of my favorite color combinations. These masks in their foil packets felt glamorous to me based on that fact alone.)</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_5  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2><strong>The Ingredients</strong></h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_0 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" width="760" height="760" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-sheet-mask-ingredients.png" alt="My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask list of ingredients" title="My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening sheet mask ingredients" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-sheet-mask-ingredients.png 760w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-sheet-mask-ingredients-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 760px, 100vw" class="wp-image-503847" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_6  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Although its hydrolyzed black pearl is what gives this mask its name, the My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening mask essence includes some other noteworthy ingredients as well. <a title="Sodium hyaluronate vs hyaluronic acid" href="https://www.healthline.com/health/beauty-skin-care/sodium-hyaluronate" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">Sodium hyaluronate</a>, with a lower molecular weight than its more famous sister, hyaluronic acid, penetrates the epidermis to improve hydration from the underlying skin layers. The My Scheming mask also contains <a title="centella asiatica in skincare" href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/melaniehaiken/2014/05/17/latest-anti-aging-skin-breakthrough-an-ancient-herb/?sh=1516e62c37f9" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">centella asiatica</a> leaf extract (known for soothing sensitive skin and diminishing redness) and <a title="niacinamide skincare benefits" href="https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/beauty/anti-aging/a32191645/what-is-niacinamide-for-skin/" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">niacinamide</a>, which works with the black pearl powder to gently brighten skin tone.</p>
<p>According to My Scheming, essence of <a title="black pearl in skincare" href="https://www.healthline.com/health/pearl-powder#what-it-is" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">black pearl powder</a> contains pearl protein, amino acids, and antioxidants. Hydrolyzed pearl has been used in China as an anti-inflammatory and acne treatment since around 320 AD. Since black pearl powder speeds up collagen production, is high in calcium, and contains a large number of amino acids and trace minerals, it was also thought to accelerate the healing process for certain wounds or skin conditions.</p>
<p>Note: This mask is lightly fragranced. I normally try to steer clear of fragrance in skincare, but my skin had no problem with this. For those of you with sensitive noses, I found the scent to be extremely light and unobtrusive but your mileage may vary. However, if you have extra sensitive skin, approach with caution.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_7  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2><strong>The Application</strong></h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_8  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>As someone who has tried a lot of sheet masks, I was surprised at how little essence actually absorbed into the semi-thick cotton mask. There was a good amount of essence in the packet (which I love because I save it and use it as a serum for the next few days until it&rsquo;s gone) but the mask itself wasn&rsquo;t soaking wet with essence. This wasn&rsquo;t a deal-breaker for me because sometimes it&rsquo;s nice to slap on a mask without going blind from the essence dripping into my eyes, but I can&rsquo;t remember any other mask that felt like the black pearl mask&rsquo;s texture.</p>
<p>Anyway, I digress. Upon application, I was torn on how I felt about the shape of the mask and its fit on my face. As someone with a small-ish face, finding a well-fitting sheet mask can be a challenge. A lot of sheet masks come down past my chin and drip the essence down my neck and shirt. (Not an ideal experience!) For the most part, the My Scheming mask fit the shape of my face better than any other mask I&rsquo;ve ever used (in recent memory, anyway). For some reason (maybe to enhance the fit?), the mask has little slits around its edge. This made initial application a bit tricky because the slits kept folding inwards and creating bumps, but once I got that situation straightened out, I didn&rsquo;t mind the slits so much and I felt like the design kept the mask from <a title="silicone sheet mask cover" href="https://www.yesstyle.com/en/litfly-reusable-silicone-mask-cover-1-pc/info.html/pid.1044338193" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">slipping off my face</a>. The bigger problem for me was how short the part of the mask that went over my nose was. My nose is a target area for my skincare routine because it tends to get red/splotchy/blackhead-prone/gross/etc. more than anywhere else on my face so having a mask that doesn&rsquo;t fully cover my nose wasn&rsquo;t ideal. With a bit of extra adjustment, I was able to <em>almost</em> attain a decent fit.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_9  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2><strong>The Waiting</strong></h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_1 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="760" height="760" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-Black-Mask-review.png" alt="My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask product test" title="My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask review" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-Black-Mask-review.png 760w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-Black-Mask-review-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 760px, 100vw" class="wp-image-503846" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_10  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>My Scheming&rsquo;s directions say to leave the black pearl sheet mask on for 15-20 minutes before removal. Because the mask didn&rsquo;t seem to absorb a lot of essence, I felt almost ready to remove the mask after 10 minutes but waited the extra 5 minutes for the purpose of this review. As you can see from this picture, the sheet looked fairly dry on my skin at the 15 minute mark.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_11  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2><strong>The Results</strong></h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_12  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>I must say, my experience with the application left me unprepared for the results. Upon removing the mask, I found (no surprise) that my skin absorbed almost all of the essence. As someone who uses sheet masks frequently, I find that I almost always end up needing to rub in the extra essence at the end of my masking session. I didn&rsquo;t need to do this with the My Scheming Black Pearl Black Mask (a first for me!) but my skin didn&rsquo;t feel dry at all (although I did put on my <a title="Purito Cica Barrier Sleeping Pack night moisturizer" href="https://www.yesstyle.com/en/purito-dermide-cica-barrier-sleeping-pack-80ml/info.html/pid.1083741822" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">Purito Dermide Cica Barrier Sleeping Pack</a>, which I use as a daily moisturizer). On the contrary, my skin felt bouncy and looked like glass (as opposed to feeling weighed down and greasy, which sometimes happens after a heavy sheet mask).</p>
<p>I think I&rsquo;m going to nickname the My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask the Goldilocks mask because as far as results go, everything about it was just right. My skin was moist without feeling weighed down, smooth without feeling greasy, and brighter without feeling sensitized (like it sometimes feels if I use a product with <a title="vitamin C and skin sensitivity" href="https://www.skincare.com/article/vitamin-c-intolerance" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">vitamin C</a> in it).&nbsp;</p>
<p>This sheet mask definitely lives up to its claims of brighter, softer, more supple skin. And unlike the results I&rsquo;ve seen from a lot of sheet masks, these ones last. I find my skin needing a boost about a week after using one of these masks. I&rsquo;ve tried a lot of other masks with temporary results. My skin&rsquo;s default state is dry, red, and dull. If I can have clear, bouncy, moist skin for more than 24 hours after applying a sheet mask, I can justify spending $1.54 or even $2.00 per mask. (Also: As someone who has fallen victim to maskne, I can testify to its acne-treating properties with regular use).</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_13  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2><strong>Final Verdict</strong></h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_2 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="760" height="760" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-Black-Mask-results.png" alt="My Scheming Black Pearl sheet mask brightening results" title="My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask results" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-Black-Mask-results.png 760w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/My-Scheming-Black-Pearl-Brightening-Black-Mask-results-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 760px, 100vw" class="wp-image-503848" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_14  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>If you&rsquo;re looking for a quality brightening sheet mask at a mid-end price, try the <a title="My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask" href="https://www.yesstyle.com/en/my-scheming-black-mask-8-pcs-11-types-miraculous-yeast-moisturizing/info.html/pid.1076561300" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask</a> and report back to me with your results! (And ignore the messy background of my results photo!)</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_15  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>Get your My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask Here</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_16  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><a title="My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask" href="https://www.yesstyle.com/en/my-scheming-black-mask-8-pcs-11-types-miraculous-yeast-moisturizing/info.html/pid.1076561300" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">My Scheming Black Pearl Brightening Black Mask</a></p>
<p><strong>Note:</strong> This is NOT an affiliate review. You won&#8217;t get any discount from clicking my link. However, the fact that I am not an affiliate means my review is honest.</p></div>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/my-scheming-black-pearl-brightening-sheet-mask/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>4 Sun Protection Tips: Celebrate Summer with Healthy Skin!</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/uva-uvb-upf-sun-protection-skincare-tips/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/uva-uvb-upf-sun-protection-skincare-tips/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2020 09:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Skincare]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=501811</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_3 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_3 et_pb_equal_columns et_pb_gutters3">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_3  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_17  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>It&#8217;s the first day of summer and you know what that means: you&#8217;ll be hearing from me about how to have fun in the sun without burning your buns!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s no secret that I&#8217;m a staunch advocate for skin cancer prevention. If there is a secret to be had, it&#8217;s that the gothier part of me also kinda likes being pale. (Also, I take meds that make me literally allergic to direct sunlight. Weirdest side effect ever, I know. More on that later.) Whether you&rsquo;re hoping to retain your Victorian aesthetic, are looking for ways to combat a medication-induced sun sensitivity, or are simply a skin cancer prevention warrior, you&#8217;ve come to the right place. I&#8217;ve obsessively battled UV radiation for more than a decade now so I&rsquo;m kind of a sun protection guru. Follow these tips and you, too, will be able to hit up the beach or go for long hikes without suffering sunburns or photoaging (I don&#8217;t know about you but the only wrinkles I&#8217;m willing to tolerate are laugh lines).</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_18  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>1. Sunscreen, Sunscreen, Properly Applied Sunscreen!</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_3 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="2560" height="1708" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/young-woman-applying-sunscreen-scaled.jpg" alt="young woman applying sunscreen" title="young woman applying sunscreen" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/young-woman-applying-sunscreen-scaled.jpg 2560w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/young-woman-applying-sunscreen-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/young-woman-applying-sunscreen-980x654.jpg 980w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/young-woman-applying-sunscreen-480x320.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) and (max-width: 1280px) 1280px, (min-width: 1281px) 2560px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501936" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_19  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>It should go without saying that sunscreen is at the top of any sun protection list. Sunscreen application is both the bare minimum and your first line of defense when it comes to sun protection. Unfortunately, the sunscreen discussion tends to end with &#8220;apply daily.&#8221; Are you applying it effectively though, and reapplying every 90 minutes if you&#8217;re sweating? Do you know the difference between physical and chemical sunscreens? You&#8217;ve heard of the Sun Protection Factor (SPF) but have you heard of the PA system (or Protective Grade of UVA) and the Persistent Pigment Darkening (PPD) reaction? If not, I cover these topics in more detail in my <a title="Most Effective Sunscreens" href="https://darylsznyter.com/best-sunscreens-spf-protection/">most effective sunscreens</a> article.The most important takeaways are to look for sunscreens with an SPF 50 PA++++ rating and to make sure you&#8217;re not skimping on the amount of sunscreen you apply! The <a title="American Academy of Dermatology How to Apply Sunscreen" href="https://www.aad.org/public/diseases/skin-cancer/prevent/sunscreen-apply" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">American Academy of Dermatology</a> urges adults to apply at least 1 oz of sunscreen (enough to fill a shot glass) for optimal efficiency. Also, ladies: Slapping on a BB cream with SPF in the morning will not protect you the way you think it will. BB creams and tinted moisturizers with added SPF protection are great for an additional layer of sun protection but unless you&#8217;re cool with a sticky, cakey face, chances are you&#8217;re not applying a thick enough layer to get full protection. Speaking of sticky, sunscreen doesn&#8217;t have to be sticky! Again, if you&#8217;re overwhelmed by the number of sunscreen options on the market, check out my <a title="Sunscreen Recommendations for People Who Hate Sunscreen" href="https://darylsznyter.com/best-sunscreens-spf-protection/">everyday sunscreen recommendations for people who hate sunscreen</a>.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_20  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>2. Optimize Your Wardrobe For UPF Protection</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_4 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Daryl_Sznyter-sun-protection-fashion-floppy-hat-and-jean-jacket.png" alt="sun protection fashion floppy hat and jean jacket" title="Daryl Sznyter sun protection fashion floppy hat and jean jacket" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Daryl_Sznyter-sun-protection-fashion-floppy-hat-and-jean-jacket.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Daryl_Sznyter-sun-protection-fashion-floppy-hat-and-jean-jacket-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501935" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_21  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Okay, so I&#8217;ll admit I was once part of the camp who thought clothing provided adequate sun protection. In reality, most summer clothing (think thin, cottony fabric) only provides a UPF of about 5. <a title="5 Things That Effect How Well Your Clothing Blocks UV Rays" href="https://www.skincancer.org/blog/dress-to-protect-5-things-that-affect-how-well-your-clothes-block-uv-rays/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Skin Cancer Foundation</a> contradicts my statement that sunscreen is the first line of defense in a sun protection arsenal since most people don&#8217;t apply it properly. They give some awesome tips on picking out clothes that provide more protection than your favorite t-shirt (hint: color, construction, size, and fit all play a role in an item of clothing&#8217;s protection level). As someone who has experimented with summer-friendly, radiation-fighting clothing for years, I have some tips of my own to keep you cool and your skin safe:</p>
<h3>Loose fitting jean jackets = LIFE</h3>
<p>My favorite vintage Levi jean jacket is the perfect accessory for any summer outfit from sundress to t-shirt. Its loose fit prevents the fabric from sticking to my skin and the think denim material is thick enough to keep out the bad rays.</p>
<h3>Sometimes long sleeves keep you cooler!</h3>
<p>My Italian, olive-skinned fianc&eacute; will never believe me on this, but I&#8217;ve experienced more relief with long-sleeved shirts in moisture-wicking polyester or nylon than if I&#8217;d exposed a bare arm to the sun. Sunlight penetrates the skin and increases body temperature. Think of synthetic fabrics like an umbrella for your skin: a slight shade will cool you down, even on the hottest summer day.</p>
<h3>The innovators at Coolibar should win a Nobel Prize</h3>
<p><a title="Coolibar UPF sun protection clothing" href="https://coolibar.com" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Coolibar</a> was the first clothing company to provide fashionable UPF50+ clothing. Although a few other brands have since followed suit (see: <a title="Uv Skinz sun protection clothing" href="https://uvskinz.com" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Uv Skinz</a> and <a title="Solbari UPF sun protection clothing" href="https://usa.solbari.com" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Solbari</a> ), Coolibar is the top brand recommended by The Skin Cancer Foundation. They carry everything from blankets and dresses to pants, shirts, and swimwear for men, women, and children. I&#8217;m a huge fan of their <a title="Coolibar UPF 50+ gloves and arm sleeves" href="https://www.coolibar.com/accessories/gloves-sleeves.html" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">gloves and arm sleeves</a> for covering up while I&#8217;m driving.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_22  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>3. Be that Oversized Hat-Loving, Umbrella-Wielding Weirdo Wherever You Go</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_5 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="2560" height="1920" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/sun-protection-umbrella-scaled.jpg" alt="sun protection umbrella" title="sun protection umbrella" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/sun-protection-umbrella-scaled.jpg 2560w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/sun-protection-umbrella-1280x960.jpg 1280w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/sun-protection-umbrella-980x735.jpg 980w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/sun-protection-umbrella-480x360.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) and (max-width: 1280px) 1280px, (min-width: 1281px) 2560px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501937" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_23  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>A decade ago, we thought Japanese tourists were weird for walking with umbrellas on sunny summer days. Now, we know better, but the umbrella stigma lingers. An introvert by nature, I hate the involuntary conversation my umbrella invites, but I use the curiosity of others to educate them about skin cancer prevention. Did you know that the scalp is one of skin cancer&#8217;s favorite places to rear its ugly head (no pun intended)? Probably not, because you can&#8217;t exactly slather sunscreen on your scalp (well, I guess you can but who would want to?). Umbrellas are great for both shade and UV protection, but you can&rsquo;t carry them everywhere. If you&#8217;re into gardening or outdoor running (don&#8217;t forget your waterproof SPF!), a big floppy hat is more feasible. I have this oversized black Kentucky Derby-esque hat that radiates glamor and does an excellent job shielding my face, neck, and shoulders when I&#8217;m on the go (goth girls, hit me up for hat-buying recs). For running, although not as effective, I&#8217;d suggest a good old-fashioned baseball cap.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_24  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>4. Educate Yourself on Medication Side Effects and Skincare Routine Interactions</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_6 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="756" height="756" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/sun-sensitivity-medication.jpg" alt="sun sensitivity medication" title="sun sensitivity medication" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/sun-sensitivity-medication.jpg 756w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/sun-sensitivity-medication-480x480.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 756px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501938" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_25  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>As I mentioned earlier in this article, I have a medication-induced sun allergy. My condition is rare, but sun sensitivity as a side effect of certain medications is far more common. Your skincare regimen might also produce sun sensitivity. Retinols, AHAs and BHAs (and the myriad additional acids found on the market these days), Benzoyl Peroxide, enzymes, and a variety of other ingredients carry warnings to avoid or limit sun exposure. These warnings are not to be taken lightly. Take it from the girl who ended up in urgent care with chemical burns after a trip to New Orleans: it&#8217;s in your best interest to set an alarm so you don&#8217;t forget to reapply your SPF every 90 minutes. I&#8217;d also highly recommend physical/mineral sunscreens over chemical ones for sensitive skin types. (One of my newest favs for face and body application is <a title="Make P:rem UV Defense Calamine Sun Milk SPF 50 PA++++" href="https://www.amazon.com/MAKEP-Calamine-Moisture-Non-nano-sunscreen/dp/B07QSHYZ8X/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Make P:rem UV Defense Calamine Sun Milk SPF 50 PA++++</a>. Large sizes and decent prices for Korean skincare? Yay!)</p>
<p>I can go on and on (and on and on and on) about different ways to protect your skin from sun damage, but these four easy tips are a good place for novice skin cancer warriors to start.</p></div>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/uva-uvb-upf-sun-protection-skincare-tips/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Swallow Film Review: Impulse-Control Disorders &#038; Domestic Horror</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/swallow-pica-horror-film-review/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/swallow-pica-horror-film-review/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2020 17:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Horror]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=501211</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_4 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_4 et_pb_equal_columns et_pb_gutters3">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_4  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_26  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>I don&rsquo;t talk about it as often as I should, but my skincare obsession began as an attempt to curb a different type of obsession. Dermatillomania, also known as excoriation disorder, is defined by the <a title="Excoriation Disorder DSM-5" href="https://www.theravive.com/therapedia/excoriation-disorder-dsm--5-698.4-(l98.1)" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">DSM</a> as &ldquo;a disorder of impulse control characterized by the urge to pick at the skin, even to the extent that damage is caused.&rdquo; In college, I would sometimes make myself late for class by spending 3 hours in the mirror &ldquo;cleaning the dirt from my pores&rdquo; (as I told myself). Like most people with the disorder, I hated what I was doing to myself but no therapist, medication, or mindfulness exercise made a dent in my behavior. A few years ago after treating myself to one of the best facials ever as a birthday gift to myself, a lightbulb went on: I could go a few days without picking my skin after a facial because during that time <em>there was nothing to pick</em>. Once I figured this out, I embarked on my quest to rid my skin of what I&rsquo;d call its problematic texture. Heavy moisturizers, regular face masks, and weekly chemical exfoliation have proven miraculous in my &ldquo;recovery.&rdquo; I put &ldquo;recovery&rdquo; in quotes because I&rsquo;m not perfect. I still stumble sometimes and consider it a good month if it ends with less than 3 scabs on my face.</p>
<p>I&rsquo;m telling you my story as a precursor to my review of <em>Swallow</em> because I want you to know that I speak from experience when I say director Carlo Mirabella-Davis&rsquo; portrayal of pica as a body-focused repetitive behavior (as opposed to an eating disorder, which would have been the trite, obvious choice) makes <em>Swallow</em> one of those rare, beautiful films that successfully presents a struggle for self-agency as the etiology of an impulse control disorder.</p>
<p><em>Swallow</em> follows Hunter (Haley Bennett), a soft-spoken twentysomething newlywed dressed like a 1950s housewife, as she tiptoes around a large empty mansion painted in saturated pink hues. From the opening scene&rsquo;s closeup of her carefully coiffed blonde bob (a hairstyle that doesn&rsquo;t go over well, as we&rsquo;ll soon find out), we get the impression Hunter&rsquo;s every movement is part of a carefully crafted mask. In a telling scene with her mother-in-law (Elizabeth Marvel), we learn that Hunter is an artist with low self-esteem who insists she&rsquo;s happy to leave career aspirations behind because &ldquo;nobody would have hired me anyway.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Every modern artist who has ever worked a mind-numbing 9 to 5 dreams of being gifted the time and resources to pursue their art full time. In Hunter&rsquo;s situation, the extent of her creative freedom is limited to choosing curtain colors (and even this small choice provokes a snarky reply from her husband Richie Conrad, played by Austin Stowell). By the time Hunter swallows that first marble, prompted by a self-help book encouraging spontaneity, I found myself wondering how she held out for so long.</p>
<p>For realism&rsquo;s sake, one can cite <a title="pica and pregnancy study" href="https://nwhjournal.org/article/S1751-4851(15)30199-9/fulltext" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">studies</a> linking pregnancy and pica to explain Hunter&rsquo;s newfound craving for push pins and chess pieces. In <em>Swallow</em>, Hunter&rsquo;s pregnancy (and the Conrad family&rsquo;s response to it) is the last brick kicked out from under a toppling foundation; the objects she swallows are the braces she uses to build a new one. It is no mistake that her pica is discovered during an ultrasound.</p>
<p>So many movies in the &ldquo;woman on the verge of a breakdown&rdquo; domestic horror subgenre demonstrate a clear lack of research on the director&rsquo;s part. According to Carlo Mirabella-Davis, <em>Swallow</em> is an homage to his grandmother, a compulsive hand-washer in an unhappy marriage who suffered abuse at the mercy of the 1950s mental health system. In an <a title="Nightmarish Conjurings interview with Swallow director Carlo Mirabella-Davis" href="http://www.nightmarishconjurings.com/2020/03/06/interview-writer-director-carlo-mirabella-davis-for-swallow/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">interview</a>, Mirabella-Davis said of his grandmother, &ldquo;I always felt like she was being punished, in a way, for not living up to society&rsquo;s expectations of what they felt a wife or mother should be.&rdquo; Mirabella-Davis&rsquo; explanation makes sense given the link between trauma-induced obsessive compulsive disorder and the sufferer&rsquo;s desire to control something &#8211; anything &#8211; about what happens next.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, he followed this statement up by admitting handwashing &ldquo;isn&rsquo;t very cinematic&rdquo; but a picture he had seen of various items removed from the stomach of a pica sufferer made for a more interesting visual.</p>
<p>Critics of <em>Swallow</em> accuse Mirabella-Davis of misrepresenting pica for his own personal gains. As someone who suffers from an impulse control disorder myself, I urge viewers to approach this film with the knowledge that even mental health professionals admit pica, dermatillomania, trichotillomania, and a wide range of other body-focused compulsions are still largely underresearched and misunderstood by the masses. The main reason they&rsquo;re underresearched is because sufferers of these disorders are less likely to seek help due to the social stigma and shame associated with abnormal behaviors deemed &ldquo;gross&rdquo; by society at large.</p>
<p><em>Swallow&rsquo;s</em> main controversy is its protagonist&rsquo;s success in drawing power from an otherwise unhealthy behavior. The only other film I can think of that achieves this is Marina de Van&rsquo;s <a title="Isolation Horror Movies list Marina de Van Dans ma Peau" href="https://darylsznyter.com/isolation-horror-movies/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>Dans ma Peau</em></a>, a New French Extremity film touching on themes of identity and self-ownership through a woman&rsquo;s increasingly violent acts of self-mutilation. Although they explore similar themes, <em>Dans ma Peau</em> and <em>Swallow</em> are in stylistic opposition. De Van&rsquo;s camera does not flinch as Esther (played by Marina de Van herself) hacks away at herself in erotic fascination. Mirabella-Davis, on the other hand, favors subtlety, letting the audience draw their own connections between images and their implications. At the peak of Hunter&rsquo;s illness, a flash of miscellaneous objects on a mantlepiece is all we need to imagine them sliding down her gullet. This is a smart directorial choice given the film&rsquo;s theme of repression.</p>
<p>The theme of repression reaches beyond Hunter&rsquo;s aloof party face and the Conrad family&rsquo;s forceful attempts to hide their own dark secrets. About two thirds of the way through the movie, we learn Hunter&rsquo;s unhealthy relationship with men and low opinion of herself didn&rsquo;t begin with Richie and his family. Perhaps one of the movie&rsquo;s saddest scenes occurs in a shady therapist&rsquo;s office where Hunter divulges a childhood secret that is clearly a big deal (even to her abusive husband who tries not to be a jerk for a hot minute but doesn&rsquo;t know how). The monotone, journalistic voice in which she describes the incident must have taken a lot of practice on Haley Bennett&rsquo;s part; if I had that role, it would be hard to remove the shakiness from my voice.</p>
<p>The last third of <em>Swallow</em> feels like a lifetime movie, but it couldn&rsquo;t happen any other way. Hunter finds forgiveness in the end &#8211; forgiveness for herself, that is, because for once, she&rsquo;s convinced she matters. What she wants for herself matters. And in the very last scene, she takes what she wants for herself in a public restroom at the mall, a stark contrast to her home&rsquo;s pristine private bathroom, where she discreetly expelled various objects throughout the rest of the film. As the end credits roll, the camera lingers in the ladies room, focused on the full-wall mirror in front of the sinks. As women of all ages come and go, we&rsquo;re meant to wonder what secrets these strangers hide and how many of them hold pain like Hunter&rsquo;s. Somebody must have told Mirabella-Davis that some of the worst (and best) moments of a woman&rsquo;s life happen in the bathroom. Either that, or like most men, he wonders why we go in groups.</p></div>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/swallow-pica-horror-film-review/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gelee Mask: Dry Skin-Approved</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/volition-beauty-detoxifying-silt-gelee-mask-dry-skin-review/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/volition-beauty-detoxifying-silt-gelee-mask-dry-skin-review/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2020 19:59:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Skincare]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=500135</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_5 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_5 et_pb_equal_columns et_pb_gutters3">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_5  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_27  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Have you ever had a week when just making it to Friday felt like your life&rsquo;s greatest achievement? For me, that was last week. Unfortunately for my pocketbook (but fortunately for my face), the stars aligned with my misery and I ended my crappy week on a payday. It was time to treat myself. For those of you who know me, &ldquo;treating myself&rdquo; usually translates to adding a luxury skincare product to my ever-expanding shelf.</p>
<p>Due to my indecisive nature and penny-pinching ways, I often spend hours scouring the <a title="SkincareAddiction subreddit" href="https://www.reddit.com/r/SkincareAddiction/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">SkincareAddiction</a> and <a title="AsianBeauty subreddit" href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianBeauty/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">AsianBeauty</a> subreddits (great resources, btw) for product reviews before making a commitment. It&rsquo;s kind of like Googling a guy before a first date to make sure he&rsquo;s not going to chop your face into tiny little pieces and burn the remains (kind of like a bad chemical peel). If he has a criminal record, you continue down the rabbit hole even after you&rsquo;ve canceled the date. Not that this has happened to me, but &hellip;</p>
<p>Anyway, on the rare occasion I decide to trust my intuition (which amounts to maybe the 7 days or so of the first quarter moon?), I take my psychic energy to <a title="Sephora.com" href="https://sephora.com" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Sephora.com</a> and see if anything in particular calls my name. On this occasion, <a title="Sephora.com" href="https://volitionbeauty.com/shop/products/detoxifying-silt-gelee/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Volition Beauty&rsquo;s Detoxifying Silt Gel&eacute;e Mask</a> was singing a siren song.</p>
<p>Usually, when I&rsquo;m called to a product promises to &ldquo;detoxify and balance clogged pores,&rdquo; it means my intuition is seriously off and I probably shouldn&rsquo;t leave the house because everyone knows &ldquo;detoxify,&rdquo; &ldquo;pores,&rdquo; and possibly &ldquo;silt&rdquo; are all code words for &ldquo;clay mask.&rdquo; And if you&rsquo;re a skincare addict with dry skin, you know &ldquo;clay mask&rdquo; is code for &ldquo;<a title="Trouble Every Day New French Extremity Movie" href="https://www.amazon.com/Trouble-Every-Day-Vincent-Gallo/dp/B013SOI952/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Trouble Every Day</a>.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Nonetheless, Volition Beauty touts the silt gel&eacute;e mask&rsquo;s hydrating properties so in an uncharacteristically impulsive skincare purchase, I came to possess the Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gel&eacute;e Mask. Before I share my experience with this versatile wash-off black silt mask, let me introduce you to Volition Beauty.</p>
<h2>Volition Beauty: About the Brand</h2>
<p>&ldquo;We exist to make the best clean skincare. For you, with you.&rdquo; While a lot of beauty brands might have similar mission statements, few put their money where their mouth is quite like <a title="Volition Beauty skincare" href="https://volitionbeauty.com/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Volition Beauty</a>.</p>
<p>Volition Beauty approaches skincare with an entrepreneurial spirit, offering the average person the chance to <a title="Volition Beauty submit a skincare product idea" href="https://volitionbeauty.com/quizzes/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">submit</a> product ideas for their community to <a title="vote on a Volition Beauty skincare product idea" href="https://volitionbeauty.com/campaigns/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">vote</a> on. If an idea gets enough votes, Volition Beauty will make it happen. In fact, not only will they make it happen, but they&rsquo;ll do it without parabens, sulfates, or animal cruelty (view a complete list of their <a title="Volition Beauty banned ingredients list" href="https://volitionbeauty.com/pages/clean_beauty/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">banned ingredients</a> here).</p>
<p>What makes Volition Beauty even more noteworthy (in addition to all the awesome stuff already mentioned) is that they pay their contributors. This concept should be common sense, but you&#8217;d be surprised how many companies think having your idea come to fruition is payment enough. Let&rsquo;s hear a round of applause for Volition Beauty&#8217;s self-realization and demonstrated gratitude to their contributors!</p>
<div style="width: 50%; height: 0px; padding-bottom: 50%; position: relative; text-align:center;"><iframe loading="lazy" class="giphy-embed" style="position: absolute;" src="https://giphy.com/embed/kpWbVBzcSiO2I" width="100%" height="100%" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></div>
<p>I&#8217;ve only tried the detoxifying silt gel&eacute;e mask, but they have a product for every step in your skincare routine from <a title="Volition Beauty Vanishing Oil cleanser" href="https://volitionbeauty.com/shop/t/categories/skincare-by-type/cleansers/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">cleanser</a> to <a title="Volition Beauty Prismatic Luminizing Shield SPF 50" href="https://volitionbeauty.com/shop/t/categories/skincare-by-type/face-sunscreen/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">sunscreen</a> (and y&#8217;all know how much I love a good <a title="Best Everyday Sunscreens for Year-Round SPF Protection" href="https://darylsznyter.net/best-everyday-sunscreens/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">sunscreen</a>!). One of these days, I&#8217;ll get around to trying all of them but now it&#8217;s time to give the Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gel&eacute;e Mask the love and attention it deserves!</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_28  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>The Product: Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gel&eacute;e Mask ($60)</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_7 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detox-Silt-Gelee-Face-Mask.png" alt="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gelee Face Mask" title="Volition Beauty Detox Silt Gelee Face Mask" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detox-Silt-Gelee-Face-Mask.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detox-Silt-Gelee-Face-Mask-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501018" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_29  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>At $60 for a 2 oz jar, the <a title="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gel&eacute;e Mask" href="https://volitionbeauty.com/shop/products/detoxifying-silt-gelee/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gel&eacute;e Mask</a> has luxe written all over (most of) it. Fans of tactile sensation will appreciate running a finger over the jar&#8217;s smooth frosted glass almost as much as they&#8217;ll love the consistency and texture of the mask itself.</p>
<p>Volition Beauty was right on the mark in calling this product a &#8220;gel&eacute;e mask&#8221; (i.e: ideal for dry skin types because oily types aren&#8217;t the only ones who need to detox sometimes). The mask, although it resembles (a poop-colored) clay in the jar, actually feels like a medium-consistency gel as it glides onto your face with ease.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_8 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Face-Mask-open-jar.png" alt="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gelee Face Mask open jar" title="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gelee Face Mask open jar" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Face-Mask-open-jar.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Face-Mask-open-jar-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501019" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_30  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>That being said, when I hinted Volition&#8217;s packaging was &#8220;mostly&#8221; luxurious, I was referring to the plastic applicator spatula. The spatula is almost laughably useless and entirely too small to scoop the needed amount of product out of the jar, let alone actually apply it to your face. As someone who advocates for <a title="COVID-19 and Hygienic Dermalogica Skincare" href="https://darylsznyter.net/covid-19-skincare-hygiene/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">hygienic skincare</a> and mostly avoids products in jars due to potential contamination, the spatula situation was disappointing to say the least.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_9 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/volition-silt-gelee-face-mask-spatula.png" alt="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Gelee Face Mask application spatula" title="Volition Beauty silt gelee face mask spatula" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/volition-silt-gelee-face-mask-spatula.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/volition-silt-gelee-face-mask-spatula-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501020" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_31  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Fortunately, I have my own arsenal of <a title="Plazuria Face Mask Mixing Bowl and Spatula Applicator set" href="https://www.amazon.com/Plazuria-Facemask-Spatula-Silicone-Premium/dp/B07Q568NRF/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">face mask application brushes</a>, so this problem was easy to remedy for me. If you don&#8217;t have your own brush or spatula, I&#8217;d suggest buying one before using this product because Volition Beauty&#8217;s included spatula just isn&#8217;t going to cut it. However, this product is so amazing that their spatula problem wasn&#8217;t a complete deal-breaker for me.</p>
<p>Although pleasingly surprised with the detoxifying silt gel&eacute;e mask&rsquo;s texture, I&#8217;ll admit I was still leery about letting it work its magic because the usage instructions mimicked those of your typical clay mask: &#8220;Apply a generous amount while avoiding eye area. Leave on for 5-10 minutes. Use included sponge and water to remove. Apply 1 to 3 times a week. To activate sponge, run under water.&#8221; Although they didn&#8217;t specifically say to wait for the mask to &#8220;dry&#8221; on your face, I knew that was the insinuation. Or at least that was my assumption. What happened in the next 5-10 minutes defied my expectations and earned this product HG status in my beauty regimen.</p>
<p>Dry-skinned ladies and gents, this product is for you. Combination-skinned peeps? It&#8217;s for you too. My oily-skinned frenemies? Go out and get yourself a jar because this product is universally transcendent and &#8220;dries&#8221; without hardening or making the skin feel tight. Upon removal, my skin felt softer, plumper, and more supple. I glowed like an angel, not an oil slick. As for the &#8220;detoxifying and balancing&#8221; promises? Don&#8217;t pray to St. Anthony or anything but I seemed to have misplaced my pores.</p>
<p>As per their instructions, Volition Beauty includes two exfoliating sponges for mask removal. I must admit when I first saw these &#8220;sponges&#8221; (especially after the spatula fiasco) I thought to myself &#8220;these things remind me of the flat pieces of white cardboard paper DSW stuffs in boots to maintain their shape.&#8221; But guys, these sponges are the mind-blowingly futuristic college science experiments you&#8217;d see in an ideal world where you were actually good at science. (I&rsquo;m speaking for myself here. Science was my archnemesis throughout my entire educational career.)</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_10 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Mask-exfoliating-sponges.png" alt="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gelee Mask exfoliating sponges" title="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gelee Mask exfoliating sponges" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Mask-exfoliating-sponges.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Mask-exfoliating-sponges-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501021" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_32  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Volition Beauty notes that their sponges must be &#8220;activated&#8221; with water. This isn&#8217;t one of those highfalutin&#8217; beauty brand product descriptions that use complicated language to say &#8220;wipe this goop off your face with a wet sponge.&#8221; No. When you run these sponges under your faucet, they will double in size and morph into the perfect &ldquo;abrasive but not <em>too</em> abrasive&rdquo; texture you&#8217;ve always been looking for in an exfoliating sponge.My only complaint here is that they only give you two of them. Wiping off a poop-colored mask with a white sponge will inevitably mean that sponge will never look pristine again. Since (thank goddess) there is enough of this product for more than two uses, chances are you&#8217;re going to end up wiping off your luxury mask with a plain old washcloth at some point. Not that washcloths can&rsquo;t be luxe (if you don&rsquo;t believe me, check out these <a title="Gilden Tree luxury washcloths 24 pack" href="https://www.amazon.com/Gilden-Tree-Natural-Classic-Washcloth/dp/B07HSS15LL/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">bad boys</a> ), but if I&#8217;m paying $60 for a product, I want all of its components to last until that $60 is fully spent.</p>
<p>Do I think the Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gele&eacute; mask is worth the $60. Absolutely. I plan on using it once a week. I think the Gill-man approves too!</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_11 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Mask-results.png" alt="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gelee Mask results" title="Volition Beauty Detoxifying Silt Gelee Mask results" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Mask-results.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Volition-Beauty-Detoxifying-Silt-Gelee-Mask-results-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501022" /></span>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/volition-beauty-detoxifying-silt-gelee-mask-dry-skin-review/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>My Quarantine Horror Picks: No Zombies, Just Isolation</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/isolation-horror-movies/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/isolation-horror-movies/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2020 19:57:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Horror]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=500127</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_6 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_6 et_pb_equal_columns et_pb_gutters3">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_6  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_33  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>In a horror fan&#8217;s dictionary, &#8220;quarantine&#8221; generally comes before &#8220;zombie&#8221; and after &#8220;apocalypse.&#8221; Movies like <a title="Night of the Living Dead" href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0063350/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Night of the Living Dead</em></a>, <a title="Train to Busan" href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5700672/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Train to Busan</em></a>, and <a title="28 Days Later" href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0289043/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>28 Days Later</em></a> (as well as 2019&#8217;s fantastic <a title="Blood Quantum review" href="https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/blood-quantum-movie-review-2020" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Blood Quantum</em></a>, if you&#8217;re looking for the most relevant 21st century zombie film) are always worth a rewatch, but played out in real time, the loneliness of long-term isolation is rarely hidden behind metaphor. If <a title="World War Z" href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0816711/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>World War Z</em></a> just isn&#8217;t doing it for you these days, check out these atmospheric isolation-themed horror movies:</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_34  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>May (2002)</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_12 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1080" height="675" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/May-2002-film.jpg" alt="May 2002 film" title="May 2002 film" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/May-2002-film.jpg 1080w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/May-2002-film-980x613.jpg 980w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/May-2002-film-480x300.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw" class="wp-image-500142" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_35  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Born with a lazy eye and a blunt, unintentionally traumatizing mother figure, May grew up with minimal social interaction. Her best &#8220;friend&#8221; is a doll named Susie her mother gifted her for her birthday along with the poor advice &#8220;if you can&#8217;t find a friend, make one.&#8221; Fast forward to adulthood and May gets contacts to fix her lazy eye, restoring her physical appearance to a more socially acceptable &#8220;normal.&#8221; May soon enters into a friendship and then sexual relationship with a local mechanic, whose hands she obsesses over, and a coworker, who &#8220;has a pretty neck.&#8221; Both new acquaintances originally tell her they &#8220;love&#8221; weird but soon begin to wish they could retract that statement. By the film&#8217;s end, you feel sorrier for May, who only wants to be seen, than for her victims, who refuse to acknowledge anything more than her outer appearance. I want to say I&#8217;d try to befriend May in real life, but the way she calmly talks about performing surgery on animals at the veterinary clinic she works at is more than a little off-putting.</p>
<p>Watch <a title="May (2002) Movie" href="https://www.amazon.com/May-Angela-Bettis/dp/B000KGTUUK/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>May</em></a>.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_36  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>Dans ma Peau (2002)</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_13 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1080" height="675" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Dans-ma-Peau-2002-film.jpg" alt="Dans ma Peau 2002 film" title="Dans ma Peau 2002 film" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Dans-ma-Peau-2002-film.jpg 1080w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Dans-ma-Peau-2002-film-980x613.jpg 980w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Dans-ma-Peau-2002-film-480x300.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw" class="wp-image-500143" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_37  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Although its runtime is only 93 minutes, Marina de Van&#8217;s graphic meditation on the link between self-mutilation and isolation is multilayered and full of subtext. Unlike the other movies on this list, <em>Dans Ma Peau</em>, a product of the New French Extremity movement, is not a film about depression. Have you ever picked a scab when no one was looking, fully aware of how gross scab-picking is? If you&#8217;re nodding your head right now (and if you&#8217;re not, you&#8217;re lying), you have something in common with Esther, the film&#8217;s protagonist. After injuring her leg on the way to a party and not realizing her injury until hours later, Esther&#8217;s curiosity turns into obsession as she engages in increasingly graphic forms of self-mutilation with an erotic, masturbatory glee. The further she pushes her body&#8217;s limits (and the more skin she removes), the further she distances herself from the people who could help her.</p>
<p>Watch <a title="Dans ma Peau movie" href="https://www.amazon.com/Dans-Ma-Peau-DVD-18/dp/B0006B93DI/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Dans ma Peau</em></a></p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_38  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>Phobia (2016)</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_14 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1080" height="675" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Phobia-2016-film.jpg" alt="Phobia 2016 film" title="Phobia 2016 film" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Phobia-2016-film.jpg 1080w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Phobia-2016-film-980x613.jpg 980w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Phobia-2016-film-480x300.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw" class="wp-image-500144"></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_39  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>On its most basic level, <em>Phobia</em> is about an artist who develops agoraphobia after being sexually assaulted by a taxi driver but soon starts to feel as threatened by what is inside her house as what lies outside. Sure, Indian director Pavan Kirpalani took more than a few cues from Roman Polanski&#8217;s <em>Repulsion</em>. However, unlike Polanski, Kirpalani employs the male best friend as his female protagonist&#8217;s protector. Opening with a quote from Kafka &#8220;I am a cage, in search of a bird,&#8221; <em>Phobia</em> is a notable film in that it addresses a woman&#8217;s consent, something that is rarely touched upon in Indian cinema. <em>Phobia</em> is the only movie on this list that uses hints of the supernatural to tell its story. It is also the only film that has what can be considered a hopeful ending. What makes this movie work so well is how it highlights the similarities between agoraphobic behavior and stereotypical damsel-in-distress, female sex stereotypes.</p>
<p>Watch <a title="Phobia movie" href="https://www.amazon.com/Phobia-Ankur-Vikal/dp/B07B1W44FY/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Phobia</em></a></p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_40  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>Christine (2016)</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_15 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1080" height="675" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Christine-2016-film-scene.jpg" alt="Christine 2016 film scene" title="Christine 2016 film scene" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Christine-2016-film-scene.jpg 1080w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Christine-2016-film-scene-980x613.jpg 980w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Christine-2016-film-scene-480x300.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw" class="wp-image-500145" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_41  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>No, I&#8217;m not talking about Stephen King&#8217;s haunted car. In fact, <em>Christine</em> (2016) is not even technically billed as a horror flick, but as a biographical drama. News reporter Christine Chubbuck&#8217;s struggle with depression in a world where she is told &#8220;if it bleeds, it leads&#8221; culminates in her eventual suicide by gunshot on live television. Actress Rebecca Hall gives an Oscar-worthy performance of Chubbuck. If you&#8217;ve ever loved someone diagnosed with depression, everything from Hall&#8217;s lack of affect to slow, stunted movements will strike an eerily familiar chord. Although all movies on this list are disturbing in one way or another, <em>Christine</em> takes the cake.</p>
<p>Watch <a title="Christine movie" href="https://www.amazon.com/Christine-Rebecca-Hall/dp/B01MDLOCIN/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Christine</em></a></p></div>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/isolation-horror-movies/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Bt Micro: A Safe &#038; Efficient Dermaplaning Alternative</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/bt-micro-dermaplaning-alternative/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/bt-micro-dermaplaning-alternative/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2020 19:45:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Skincare]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=500119</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_7 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_7">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_7  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_42  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>I&#8217;m a sucker for beauty and skincare trends. I never do anything to my face without performing extensive research first, but once I&#8217;ve convinced myself to take the leap, I&#8217;m as giddy as a kid in a candy store (or a chemist in a lab, depending on the trend). That being said, there are certain skincare trends that don&#8217;t live up to the hype. For me, dermaplaning was one of those trends. I tried to love it. I really did. I even went out and got myself the <a title="StackedSkincare Dermaplaning Exfoliation Tool" href="https://stackedskincare.com/products/dermaplaning-tool" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">StackedSkincare Dermaplaning Exfoliation Tool</a>. One of these days, I&#8217;ll write a review of how disappointingly inconsistent StackedSkincare&#8217;s product inventory is, but today isn&#8217;t that day. Although <a title="The Leatherface Prevention Society blog" href="https://darylsznyter.net/blog" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">The Leatherface Prevention Society</a> <em>is</em> the perfect place to discuss any skincare procedure that involves taking a scalpel to your face, I&#8217;m here to introduce you to a lesser-known, safer manual exfoliation tool called the bt-micro. The bt-micro shares a few product claims with dermaplaning tools (softer skin, more even texture, smoother makeup application) but in my opinion does a much better job with delivering results.</p>
<p>Since the <a title="Bio-therapeutic bt-micro" href="https://www.biotherapeuticspa.com/products/bt-micro" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">original bt-micro</a>  is $500+ and most of us don&#8217;t have that kind of money to contribute to our skincare dreams, I&#8217;ll be reviewing <a title="Ucero skin spatula bt-micro" href="https://www.amazon.com/Exfoliator-Blackhead-Comedones-Extractor-Cleansing/dp/B07ZGF8B67/" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer nofollow">Ucero&#8217;s &#8220;skin spatula&#8221; bt-micro</a>, a $20 alternative that gives priceless results.</p>
<h2>Bt-micro: Manual Exfoliation via Ultasonic Vibrations</h2>
<p>When I say &#8220;ultasonic vibrations,&#8221; don&#8217;t think in terms of your electric toothbrush. The bt-micro&#8217;s vibrations may sound like a bug zapper or tattoo gun but the pulsing sensation is barely noticeable when pressed against the skin and the slight redness after use fades within minutes. Ucero calls their bt-micro a &#8220;skin spatula&#8221; because of its shape and the way it glides across the skin. Ucero&#8217;s tool is bent at the tip at about a 35 degree angle. This angle directs the vibrations to just under the pores when the tool is moved across the face. The pulsations gently lift dirt and oil from clogged pores while removing dead skin cells for a healthy glow.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_16 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-with-cap-on.png" alt="bt micro" title="bt micro" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-with-cap-on.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-with-cap-on-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501070" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_43  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>Ucero Skin Spatula Bt-Micro: Product Claims</h2>
<blockquote><p>Cleaning: Used in combination with facial cleanser to deep clean pores and purify blackheads. Lifting: EMS stimulates micro-current to produce more collagen, which acts to tighten skin. Ion+: Use with water to deeply remove dirt. Ion-: Use with face cream to deeply nourish. (from product listing)</p></blockquote></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_44  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>Using the Bt-Micro: My Experience</h2></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_45  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>I practice proper skincare religiously, but my first try with Ucero&#8217;s spatula was grossly, awesomely satisfying. You could literally see the toxins leaving my pores! Think facial extractions on steroids. The rechargeable base is good for up to 80 minutes and comes with 4 settings: cleaning, lifting, ion+, and ion- (as outlined in the product claims). Like a lot of knockoff brands you&#8217;d find on Amazon, the directions weren&#8217;t exactly a fine specimen of the English language. It took some experimentation, but I soon learned that &#8220;cleaning&#8221; and &#8220;ion+&#8221; were my favorite settings. The cleaning setting can be used in conjunction with any cleanser, but I prefer to use it with my cleansing oil as step 1 of my double cleansing method. I&#8217;d say the cleaning setting is gentle enough for daily use. 2-3 times a week, I prepare my skin with my facial steamer and go to town on deep cleaning my pores with the ion+ mode. Ion+ mode demonstrates the bt-micro&#8217;s versatility. The tool&#8217;s tip curves inwards, leaving two somewhat tapered ends that absorb more of the vibration than the concave center. These tapered ends are perfect for performing gentle extractions on deeply congested pores. The picture of my cotton swab is the result of ion+ mode. As for the &#8220;lifting&#8221; and &#8220;ion-&#8221; settings, they didn&#8217;t do much for me but cleaning and ion+ modes make them irrelevant.</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_17 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-blackhead-removal-results.png" alt="bt micro blackhead removal results" title="bt micro blackhead removal results" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-blackhead-removal-results.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-blackhead-removal-results-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501071" /></span>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_46  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h3>Tips and Final Thoughts</h3></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_47  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Sanitation is vital to hygienic skincare. Fortunately, the bt-micro&#8217;s stainless steel tip is easy to wipe down with alcohol before and after every use. To make the tool work more efficiently, I highly recommend washing your face before each use to loosen dirt and prepare your pores for treatment. If you have a facial steamer, steam your face beforehand for maximum efficiency.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so glad I didn&#8217;t give up on manual exfoliation after my dermaplaning efforts turned out to be underwhelming. Thanks to Ucero&#8217;s skin spatula, my skin glows brighter than this review, every single day. Whether you have dry skin, oily skin, congested skin, or acne-prone skin, the bt-micro will change your life. Get yours today!</p></div>
			</div><div class="et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_18 et_animated et-waypoint">
				
				
				
				
				<span class="et_pb_image_wrap "><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="500" height="500" src="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-skincare-results.png" alt="bt micro skincare results self portrait" title="bt micro skincare results" srcset="https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-skincare-results.png 500w, https://darylsznyter.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/bt-micro-skincare-results-480x480.png 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 500px, 100vw" class="wp-image-501072" /></span>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/bt-micro-dermaplaning-alternative/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Book Review: Her Body and Other Parties, Carmen Maria Machado</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/her-body-and-other-parties-book-review/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/her-body-and-other-parties-book-review/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2020 19:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Horror]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Literary]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=500112</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_8 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_8 et_pb_equal_columns et_pb_gutters3">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_8  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_48  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>If you’ve ever wondered what the <a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/2591" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Grimm’s Fairy Tales</em></a> would be like if they were written by a female and released smack dab in the middle of Trump’s presidency, you need to grab yourself a copy of Carmen Maria Machado’s debut short story collection. <a href="https://carmenmariamachado.com/her-body-and-other-parties" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Her Body and Other Parties</em></a> is a book that knows its roots but transcends them to form narratives that belong to no one else but its female protagonists. Its eight short stories use horror and science fiction as vehicles to address domestic and sexual violence, eating disorders and mental health, impossible and oxymoronic expectations placed on women every day, and other problems women face that will never end up on the Disney channel (at least not in this lifetime).</p>
<p>Machado’s work draws frequent comparisons with the reworked fairy tales of Angela Carter, and something tells me she’s totally fine with that. The book’s first story, “The Husband Stitch” is a grownup retelling of Alvin Schwartz’s <a href="https://www.harpercollins.com/author/cr-100478/alvin-schwartz/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">“The Green Ribbon”</a> (which was itself a retelling of Washington Irving’s 1824 short story <a href="https://www.loa.org/news-and-views/1139-washington-irving-the-adventure-of-the-german-student" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">“The Adventure of the German Student”</a>). Boldly named after a surgical procedure in which extra sutures are used to tighten a woman’s vaginal opening following an episiotomy, “The Husband Stitch” recounts a marriage like any other, except in this marriage, of course, the woman has one part of her that is just for her: the green ribbon around her neck.</p>
<p>Instead of simply retelling an urban legend, “The Husband Stitch” brings other urban legends into its urban legend and directs its readers on how to tell its story. We are told tales of a girl who resurrects a sleeping corpse, a girl who unwittingly wears a corpse’s wedding dress, a girl who died in a trunk on her wedding day, and well, you get the picture. From the very first line, Machado makes it known that the girls in these urban legends, as well as her main protagonist, are not unique specimens. “If you read this story out loud, please use the following voices: Me: as a child, high-pitched, forgettable; as a woman, the same.” And then, after giving more robust voices to her husband, father, and son, “All other women: interchangeable with my own.” “The Husband Stitch” sets the book’s tone. Sex, death, and violence are dominant themes in every story, although some stories use them with more tenderness than others. </p>
<p>For example, “Inventory” and “Real Women Have Bodies” are stories of love and loss. In both, pandemics decimate the population as the female protagonists watch their lovers waste away before their eyes. While “Inventory” is written with a beautiful attention to detail and a rhythm that falls over you like waves, I much preferred “Real Women Have Bodies” for its creative, multi-layered premise. The pandemic in “Inventory” is reminiscent of what the world is currently experiencing with COVID-19: a mysterious illness that knows no boundary. “Real Women Have Bodies,” on the other hand, is about a pandemic that only affects women, dissolving their bodies from the outside in until they are completely transparent. What happens to them when they’re invisible is mostly left up to the reader to decide. Using a clothing store as the story’s setting, Machado creates a world you might find in a <a href="https://darylsznyter.net/soska-sisters-rabid-remake-body-horror/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Cronenberg film</a>. These stories work as love stories because death is a force outside human control.</p>
<p>“Mothers,” “Especially Heinous,” and “Difficult at Parties” use elements of magical realism to explore the darker side of sex, exposing the lasting impact of sexual violence. In “Mothers,” a miraculously conceived child becomes a symbol of an abusive same-sex relationship. In “Difficult at Parties,” a woman who has recently survived a sexual assault discovers she can hear the inner thoughts of porn stars. “Especially Heinous” is an ambitious attempt – one that sometimes falls flat – to rewrite all 272 episodes of <em>Law &#038; Order: SVU</em> in a paragraph or less from the perspectives of Benson and Stabler. These stories embrace their difficult subject matter but refuse to delve into utter hopelessness, grasping for straws of hope in coworkers, spouses, and children that may or may not exist.</p>
<p>“Eight Bites” and “The Resident” depict mental illness, gender expectations, and the way desire and sex are irrevocably intertwined with self-esteem and concerns about the body. In “Eight Bites,” a woman is convinced by her sisters (and society at large) to undergo bariatric surgery, ruining her relationship with both herself and her similarly-sized daughter in the process. “The Resident” is a Victorianesque ghost story set at a Writer’s Colony. I won’t give any more away, but I will say literary types and fans of Jane Eyre will get a kick out of it.</p>
<p>Part of what makes <em>Her Body and Other Parties</em> so special is not only the stories themselves but also how they are woven together. “The Husband Stitch” is a twisted fairytale that assaults you immediately. “Inventory” takes a step back to let you recover your breath before plunging you back into the deep end with “Mothers” (arguably the saddest story in the book). The book’s chronology, coupled with Machado’s unusual mode of storytelling, produce a powerful experience that would not be possible within the confines of traditional narrative fiction.</p></div>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/her-body-and-other-parties-book-review/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Revenge: Coralie Fargeat Takes a Stab at the Male Gaze</title>
		<link>https://darylsznyter.com/revenge-coralie-fargeat-film-review/</link>
					<comments>https://darylsznyter.com/revenge-coralie-fargeat-film-review/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daryl Sznyter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2020 19:34:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Horror]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://darylsznyter.com/?p=500106</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="et_pb_section et_pb_section_9 et_section_regular" >
				
				
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_row et_pb_row_9">
				<div class="et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_9  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_49  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light">
				
				
				
				
				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>No matter the genre, Hollywood has a long history of exploiting violence against women as entertainment. In her first feature-length film, <em>Revenge</em>, French director <a href="https://filmschoolrejects.com/coralie-fargeat-interview-revenge/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Coralie Fargeat</a> acknowledges, rejects, and transcends this history, subverting the genre’s typical pitfalls and all-too-familiar camerawork. Before I go into why Fargeat’s gorgeously shot genre masterpiece deserves a mention in my “<a href="https://darylsznyter.net/soska-sisters-rabid-remake-body-horror/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">women who did it better</a>” series, let’s talk about the rape-revenge subgenre and its grandfather, <a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0953392/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Meir Zarchi</a>.</p>
<p>Zarchi’s controversial (yet possibly well-intentioned?) rape-revenge film <a href="https://www.horrorhomeroom.com/i-spit-on-your-grave-the-original-rape-revenge/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>I Spit on Your Grave</em></a> was the first of its ilk that dared to give its female victim a chance to fight back. Released at the height of the 70s slasher era, <em>I Spit on Your Grave</em> was allegedly inspired by a woman Zarchi witnessed crawling out of the bushes one night and tried to help, only to be appalled by how legal authorities handled her case (big surprise). A fairly black-and-white depiction of rape and revenge with little character development, the film was universally panned by critics. Even today, there is much debate about whether or not the film is, indeed, a feminist tale. Nevertheless, it opened the doors for the sea of rape revenge films that followed, from <a href="https://film.avclub.com/the-last-house-on-the-left-1798205819" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Last House on the Left</em></a> to the film’s own remake and sequels. Perhaps the biggest problem with these films is their lack of female direction. It’s near impossible to see the over-the-top extended violence as anything other than masturbatory absurdity if you’ve ever been someone else’s prey.</p>
<p>Coralie Fargeat’s <a href="https://www.horrorhomeroom.com/revenge-and-the-power-of-the-gaze/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><em>Revenge</em></a>, on the other hand, uses the male gaze as her weapon of choice, flipping it around halfway through the movie as the hunters become the hunted. The film opens with Richard (<a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm1822271/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Kevin Janssens</a>), a caricature of wealth and alpha masculinity, stepping from a helicopter into a vacation-esque desert villa. Behind him is an equally caricatured Jen (<a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4436761/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Matilda Lutz</a>), introduced from a low angle body scan that lingers on her backside. Clad in a crop top and underwear, she sucks on a lollipop in a suggestive fashion. The first part of the film is painful to watch, between the slobbering mugs of Richard’s friends as they watch Jen exist in their landscape to a scene where Jen dances with Richard’s friend Stan (<a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0173003/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Vincent Colombe</a>) and he assumes possession. What happens the next day when Richard leaves Jen with his friends as he attends a business meeting is hardly surprising given the buildup.</p>
<p>What is surprising, however, is how Fargeat’s camera depicts everything that follows. For all the film’s violence, its rape scene takes place off-screen. Instead, we’re treated to the repulsive sight of the rapist’s friend Dimitri (<a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm1397399/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Guillaume Bouchède</a>) eating candy while ignoring the screams coming from the bedroom. A noteworthy difference between <em>Revenge</em> and its male-directed predecessors is that despite the film’s title, Fargeat’s Jen seeks survival more than vengeance. It is only after the men realize she isn’t dead and attempt to finish the job that she transforms from victim into warrior; and even then, she does so reluctantly. Lutz’s performance is remarkable in its subtleties. Unlike the typical female lead in the rape-revenge genre, Jen’s hands shake as she lifts the rifle. She doesn’t <em>want</em> to do this; she does this to survive.</p>
<p>Despite its neon color palette and blood-soaked second half, <em>Revenge</em> is a quiet film. Most of the dialogue takes place in the first fifteen minutes. After that, Lutz is no longer the gaze’s object but the gaze itself. Through her eyes, you see the wide expanse of desert and almost laughable projections of masculinity as she encounters the men throughout the film. From their choice of weapons to the blare of sports on the TV when she takes the hunt indoors, to her attackers’ deaths themselves, Fargeat’s camera begs the question “How do you like it?” without pausing to wait for an answer.</p>
<p><em>Revenge</em> is as violent and disturbing as its predecessors, but any woman who has ever crossed the street, left a party, or clutched a can of mace based on intuition alone will get those familiar goosebumps within its first half hour in a way that Zarchi and Craven’s films will never replicate. I can’t wait to see what Coralie Fargeat does next.</p></div>
			</div>
			</div>
				
				
				
				
			</div>
				
				
			</div></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://darylsznyter.com/revenge-coralie-fargeat-film-review/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
	</channel>
</rss>

<!--
Performance optimized by W3 Total Cache. Learn more: https://www.boldgrid.com/w3-total-cache/?utm_source=w3tc&utm_medium=footer_comment&utm_campaign=free_plugin

Page Caching using Disk: Enhanced 

Served from: darylsznyter.com @ 2026-05-21 13:15:52 by W3 Total Cache
-->